You and your baby — finding each other

Sometimes it doesn’t feel the way you expected. You look at your baby and you know you love them. But the connection — that rush of knowing, that sense of ease and warmth you imagined — feels harder to reach than you thought it would. Maybe you watch other mothers and wonder why it seems to come so naturally to them. Maybe you’re not sure your baby even likes you very much.

I want you to know: you are not a bad mother. You are not broken. And you are not alone in feeling this way. What you might be missing is simply a way in.

I offer something a little different here. With your permission, we capture a few minutes of you and your baby together — just the ordinary, everyday moments. A nappy change. A feed. You talking to them on the mat. Nothing staged, nothing performed. And then we watch it together — not to pick it apart, not to judge, but to find the moments of exquisiteness. The tiny glance, the small turn toward your voice, the micro-second where your baby is telling you something and you — without even knowing it — are already responding.

This approach is called Marte Meo, and at its heart it’s about building on your strengths, not fixing your failures. Your baby is communicating with you constantly — through their body, their gaze, their sounds, their stillness. Learning to read that language changes everything. You start to feel it — that sense of oh, I know you. And you know me.

The potential is already there — in you, in your baby, and in what you’re building together. I’m just here to help you see it.